Are we Risk Averse or Regret Averse?

If we’re mostly risk averse, then our reluctance to make certain decisions would be based upon the prospect of losing something measurable in the outcome. Hiring the ‘wrong’ executive for the job could cost the company its competitive edge. Accepting...

The Forty Year Job Search

Imagine the following: We’re stuck in a dead end job with what must be the world’s worst bosses. In fact they’re so bad to us that they feel like real slave drivers. And to make matters worse, we’re working at one of the most successful...

Networking can be painful.

The people doing the networking can find it uncomfortable to the point of unpleasant. But this post isn’t about their pain. What about the people who are being asked to provide the referral? Who’s thinking about their time and their credibility? After all,...

Why can’t we wait to speak?

When the other person is doing the talking, why can’t we wait to speak? Instead of letting our employee or professional peer or friend or family member finish their point, why are we so ready to jump in as soon as they take a breath or a pause? Are we suffering...

Networking without an agenda

As the ‘CEO of our Career’ we’re responsible for the Sales and Marketing and Branding of ourselves and our services to the wider world. In fact, we could think of ourselves as our very own ‘Head of Sales & Marketing’ when we’re...

The fence is in our heads.

What does the fence sound like? “I want to build relationships with that side of the business but I don’t think they’ll let me even try. I want to get to know my employees better but I don’t have the time. I want to offer my clients an amazing...

Where did you learn how to fail?

For me, as well as for lots of other Americans, it probably started in the first grade. That’s where we learned to follow the rules; to play it safe; to fit in; to avoid asking too many questions; to make sure the homework was arranged in exactly the right way...