Absent when the future arrives.

Executive coaching can involve lots of analysis: We look back to evaluate failures and successes. We develop strategies for the future based upon needs (a job), wants (a career) and desires (a mission or calling). But in the midst of all the remembering and planning...

How many books do we read?

Slide decks. Professional publications. The sports page. The style page. Page 6. And let’s not forget the social media feeds. Where is the deep dive? When do we generate the curiosity and energy and attention to really, really get to know a subject? To make it...

Where is our attention?

Simone Weil, French philosopher and member of the Resistance wrote the following: “Attention is the purest and rarest form of generosity.” Attention and Generosity. Two scarce commodities. Attention is something that we only give in the presence of someone...

Advice is our autobiography

What is the ‘account’ that we draw from when a family member or friend or work colleague needs our advice? How do we craft an answer that comes from our heart and represents our best shot at helping this person who is afraid or in pain? It has to come from...